Friday, October 21, 2011

Why do boys stare at girls?

Few months back, I was traveling in a train, alongside me there was a newly married couple sitting and talking between them. And then I could hear (sorry, if I eavesdropped) the beautiful young lady telling to her husband that a guy sitting opposite to her is staring at her (thanks that guy wasn't me). The husband exchanged his seat with his wife and they continued with their earlier conversation.

So, why do boys stare at girls? Is it just something that we come with those genes, where it becomes impulsive for us to stare at girls? Shall I use the word 'stare', I think 'look' is a better option. Beauty must always be appreciated, and perhaps looking at a girl is a way of appreciating her beauty. If not for staring looking by the boys, I really doubt how many girls would have looked that beautiful. Its the beauty of a lady that attracts a guy at the first instance and that makes him have a better glance at that lady. Don't you think if not for staring by the boys, all the one and half hour that she spends every day to look better would be of waste. Because ultimately we try to look good so that people appreciate that, either by words or may be through glances. This has something to do with males being a bit more expressive than their opposite sex. A girl may hide her feelings.

I really sympathize with those girls who find it annoying when a boy stares. But then a boy stares only when you deserve that, shouldn't that make you happy? I would have been so glad and happy, if I would have ever known that a girl is staring at me. I would have personally gone on record to thank her.

Don't the girls ever stare at boys? It needs to be debated. I personally had conversations with many girls and they do accept that girls do stare at boys. The difference, their act being a bit more subdued.


Priyanka's Neverland said...


firstly, thank you for bringing this topic up Soum.

And, further
I would say, there is a BIG difference between looking at someone and Staring at him/her. That difference if maintained, makes all the difference. Be it a man or a woman..

Shreya said...

I so agree with Priyanka's comment, there is a huge difference between the two and as long as that is maintained no one would havea problem.

Also anyone can check out anyone without making the other one doesnt feel uncomfortable, the moment that happens a look changes into a stare and its gross , really gross.
Each person has a different level of toleration and boldness so it is almost impossible to predict how long a look will change to stare?
Had there been no difference a word with this meaning would have never appeared in dictionary.

Nice article.

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♫♪♥PhilO♥♪♫ said...

There is a difference between 'observing' and 'staring'.
A guy can look at a girl. But then continuous eying does get annoying.

Girls do observe boys. But then we don't make it as evident as boys do :)

Nice post!
Happy staring :P

Meera said...

This is my first time on your blog. I like the simplicity with which you write. Staring or looking at the opposite sex is a normal thing. YOu say that it is beauty that attracts but no.. I would say that it is different for different people. There is a certain chemistry that makes two people look at each other in a crowd. About girls, yes ofcourse we look at men/ boys too. But socially we have been conditioned to do this covertly!!

Sujatha Sathya said...

you going on record to thank her (the girl who'd stare at you) - that was amusing
yup, we "look" too at men deserving our second glance but we never "scan" or "salivate"

Vyankatesh said...

Interesting thoughts!!

Cяystal said...

Stare? Ogling is a better word, I'd say. As if they're penetrating through your clothes. Ugh.
Just staring is different. Kind of makes you conscious though. I detest the hard, perverted stares. You can judge the discomfort from the incident you got in your first paragraph.
And girls do stare too. Its natural right. Happy staring, as far as its healthy! :D

R-A-J said...

Hahaha.. rightly said... I wonder wht wud hv happened if the guy hd told the wife tht the lady opposite ws starin at him :)

Nice thought, Soumyadeep :)

♫♪♥PhilO♥♪♫ said...

Thank You for the comment :)

Looking forward to read more of your work.

Rachana said...

The problem with guys who stare is that they often don't stare at the right places. Hence it becomes cheap and girls get irritated.
When a guy is just looking or appreciating beauty(as per what you say :P), it dosen't get offensive at all.
There is a very big difference between the guys who look and the guys who stare!

Express said...

most of the things i wanted to say have been covered by the comments.. but well, its good 2 hear the boy's part of the story too :)

and no, we dont dress up 2 b appreciated. we dress up to look our best that enables us to confidently carry out the ventures for the day. and the 2 are very different my boy :)


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